Well, at least now maybe we can cut back on the "Kevin has to be the most stubborn man I have ever met" hopefully.
lol,
Kevin
Not sure what you mean. As far as I can tell, you are just saying what you said before; i.e., that you're going to work on you and get c. But you haven't done it yet. Now your plan is that in the future, every other week, you'll talk to a c for 30 minutes about...well you're not sure what you'll discuss --but we'll assume it'll at least touch on your issues....so I guess my point is when you actually do go, and then actually do what the c suggests, and when there are actual changes that you make in your behavior and thought patterns, and when you stick with them, we'll ALL be glad for you. Til then, I'm just seeing more talk about a relatively small amount of self work that might happen in the future. And I've heard it before. Remember?
Look, just learn to Bring something to the table for a woman/wife. Not your needs and professions of love. THAT IS NOT ENOUGH...if it were, she'd be back.
I don't mean to brag but to give a concrete example of what I mean--My h is an interesting man with numerous hobbies, who is well informed and knows tons of history and art as well as being very proficient & respected in his field. By nature, he is an optimistic man with a lot of energy. He plays sports, has hobbies that include scuba diving and does outdoors things a lot. He speaks two other languages. He is also well read and interested in a lot of things and wants to take a class in my fav passions just so he can better relate to what I'm doing. He is smart, and funny and very active. He has a quiet confidence and strength I find attractive. If I were not around, he'd have nearly just as much going on in his life.
When I read your posts I just get the feeling you are waiting for your life to happen, (mainly via your w.) That's not a life. And it's not working to get her back. And it isn't attractive. It's empty.
Fill your life, live your life.
Also, again You skipped over the real question in my last post. What do you not understand or agree with, about Detachment? It's indisputably what you have to do.
j-
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