The issue with advice is that the advice giver, as well-meaning and helpful as they are, also have their own views and biases on how things should be done; rightfully so given their experience.
Or wrongly. : )
I am glad that you realize this about the advice and posters. You can almost tell how things have worked out based upon someones advice.
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Or does all roads lead to divorce eventually?
That's pessimistic. What would the point be of being here?
First: Not just no, but FCUK NO!
Look 71, if you have 1 chance in a million of saving your marriage which number would you be? And what does your choice say about YOU and your commitment to your spouse and marriage?
Oh well...those odds are too high...best get a laywer?
All road lead to death eventually...that I'll agree with. The path between birth and grave are filled with long-shots and sure things.
In MLC affairs happen, rare is the MLCer that doesn't have one. "My wife would never do that to me." uh huh. No ones spouse would...but they did. They MLC sure has hell did.
Personal view about revealing the knowledge. Yes, I believe the LBS should...but only when the LBS has CONTROL of their emotions and logic.
"Either the OP goes or I do!" doesn't really work well in MLC land. Ultimatiums tend to go the way you don't want them too around about these parts. Your spouse will be packing bags thinking, "That was easy."
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 10/02/0904:14 PM.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
