Yes, this is the thing, A&K. Loving someone doesn't mean we approve of or will endure what they do. But my love for that person does not hinge on their good behavior. My teenage sons - didn't behave as I hoped all of the time. Even bailed one out of jail for under age drinking once. Still loved him and still love him and nothing he ever does will end that love and care. Unconditional. Now...how many times will I bail him out of jail? There are limits to what we should do - is it in his best interest or mine to do this again and again?. But whatever I choose to do for that child, my parent, my friend, my Husband, myself...I do out of love.
Greek


Me45 H46
T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



Happily ever after is one day at a time.