What to do, what to do?

[ClingingToHope]

Anyway, I am totally stumped as to what to do. Our 10 year anniversary is next Saturday.

Ourch, that's a tough one. We were still together in April for our last anniversary and we just went to lunch as a family -- and she didn't even want to do that because we'd already decided to split up.

Next April? I'm going to Florida for my birthday and I'm taking my girls. For the anniversary? I hope to have a much clearer picture of where we are going by then -- either down the D path or towards reconciliation.

If it's down the D path I just might take a trip and get away. At this moment, I wouldn't want to be in the same state.

For your own self esteem, I'd say plan on doing nothing together and then if the other reaches out be receptive.