EB, just read though some of your threads and am sorry for what you are dealing with. My sitch is similiar, however, wife just moved out today to her apartment. It will be intersting to see how that goes. Of course I wonder about all the rest, but have decided to take it day-byday. I am preparing for any eventuality, although my detachment is slower than I wished for. Today's departure might hasten my ability to completely detach.

I will be checking in regularly to see how things are progressing.


ME 41, Her 41
M 18.5 years
T 19.5 years
s - 12, 10
Bomb 7/12/09
Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09
She moved out 10/1/09 - present