I agree mishka and GIMA. My W went dark, I did too. I found out later it was just as hard on her as it was me. Try to think of her as little as possible these next few weeks. You will have some good days and some bad. My good days came when I was out with people. My bad came when I was alone. Even if I had the kids, it was good to be out and around other people. You really need to GAL. You will need all the emotional health you can muster.
