Have not followed your complete thread, but have you at least been to a L for consultation? If not, I would do that ASAP, and then with his advice, decide if you need them on retainer based on knowing that the papers are on the way?
I consulted with one back in Feb. when she left, and I'll hire her on Tuesday when I go in for the appointment. I know I'll need her services now that I know my wife has filed for divorce and the papers are on the way.
I'm hurting bad.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
