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Hey Drew,
MLC is a different animal than anything you have ever faced.
Control -for me- was a major player toward the beginning, They are finally freeing themselves to NOT be controlled.
For me, it was like a projection for her. The more she screamed I was controlling, the more controlling she became. It will play a huge role in this.
There is a thing here that a lot of us refer to as script, the thing that seems to follow every MLC'er around with them....
This , my friend, is script.....
She is finally in control of HER life, and doing what SHE wants, and NOBODY is gonna tell her what she can or cannot do....
Don't let her push that button as it relates to you.
Set up a time that works well for both of you to exchange
You can choose the pins and needles you sit on Drew...
Hey 40, good to see you testifyin' again, you really are an Angel, just disguised as a Doofus...
Luv ya, mean it !
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