1. Have lots of "love-making" with Miss Someone, during which we laugh about WAW;
2. Introduce Miss Someone to the children, marry her, and move the entire family to Famous Asian City;
3. Trick WAW into having sex with me so that I can "toss her away" and get my revenge;
4. Tell the children that she is a bad mother and that BMCFriend is much better; and
5. Take all of her money and force her to be homeless.
All of her fears laid out for you on a platter. It's not crazy, it's real to her. You respond back with your own fears. So the loop continues.
Since your not a Jesuit let's try Boy Scouts. Here's why the Boy Scouts shake hands with their left hand.
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Our Scout salute and handshake are ancient signs of bravery and respect. The normal right-hand handshake comes from the times when men carried weapons such as swords or guns for their own protection. When they met one another, there was an uneasy moment as each watched the other's right hand. If it went to his sword or gun, there was a battle, but if it went to his hat it was a salute of friendship or respect. The handshake is similar - outstretching your right hand shows it is empty and you are friendly. The left-hand shake comes to us from the Ashanti warriors whom Baden-Powell met long ago in Africa. He saluted them with his right hand, but the Ashanti chieftain offered his left hand and said: 'In our land only the bravest of the brave shake hands with the left hand, because to do so we must drop our shields and our protection.'
She dropped her shield, let you know where she is vulnerable, and how did you respond? Are you there for her? It matters.
Listen to what the women are saying. It's not the way men think. You are still very angry and hurt and it is holding you back. You can't change the past. You are still fighting a emotional battle with logic. Listen and open your mind. I understand where you are, DBing was the hardest thing to do I have encountered to date. Strength and Honor.
Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.