Hey lil sis, seems we are both in the same state. Or very similar at least. There is no such thing as serving, self serving, mediation, etc here. You get divorced when the courts have time and usually there are so many cases before you, the standard time frame these days, for the preliminary hearing, when BOTH partners agree, is a year...
I liked what Cindy said :"Don't go out of your way to make waves"... I need to remember that as well. K
