Originally Posted By: Lostforwords
I also now my current mood is my usual pattern. About every 4-6 weeks I get fatigued with trying to run a business, take care of house and kids, and focus on myself. Then I blow up...so this weekend my focus is to keep from blowing up and starting a relationship discussion.


That sounds like me. I had a similar pattern and it got so common my H was expecting the blow ups... I have read about MLC but dont know much about it. I dont know if my H was in MLC (deaths, sicknesses, moves etc etc were all there and could have triggered that but...) and the A was a result or it was just the A that messed up his mind... I will never know

I know it is hard. Try to keep yourself "safe", mentally mostly (and physically of course).
Stay strong
K


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