I think that is the best attitude to have. Once you get in that mind frame, it does make dealing with the situation a lot easier. Sometimes it is easier said than done.

I would make a requirement of NC w/ OW if you do decide to reconcile. That would just be a huge NO NO...

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..