Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....

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drew
The mlcer os so self absorbed and it gets worse as they travel the tunel
from my experience with my xh he was more consistant in the start of this than now
they want to be free..no control,,no schedules
their time is their own..just like a carefree teen
my xh does not appear on the outside to be bothered by his inconsistancy to our kids they rationalize it in some way
and of course his ow wife has totally abandoned her child --so its all normal in a mlc world

enjoy your son
my R is also stronger with my kids
it is hard in the begining all the hurt the MLC causes us
it gets easier as time travels
peace