What to do, what to do?

[LuLu]

I haven't posted in awhile but here is my update in a nutshell. We're separated. OW is no longer in picture (I know for a fact because I was in contact with OW H). H is still in a bit of a fog. I've been a DB'ing, Gal'ing fool. So much so that H has called me Sweetie twice this week (and not by my first name like he has been) and I even got my first random late evening phone call since before DDAY.

Anyway, I am totally stumped as to what to do. Our 10 year anniversary is next Saturday. I am thinking about having our d's have their 1st overnight sleepover alone ever at Grandma's- huge 180 for me. I will have the night free of kids. But, I don't know if I should acknowledge the anniversary. Do I bring it up that I don't have plans? Do I make plans alone? Any advice?