Okay...deep breath...I'm just having a moment, but it won't keep me down. I'm keeping my chin up, pushing past the pain that I'm feeling right now and will not let him ruin the rest of my night.
I don't really have much to say, you know what you did. Just try to do better next time. Detach. Leave when he is there if you can't be calm. Remember you telling him what a jerk he is is not going to bring him back to you. They are so selfish right now. There's no if's, and's or but's about it.
What you are trying to do is make him question why he left. When you are bitchy & snappy, he thinks to himself, "See! This is why I don't want to be here". Make him have doubts. You be the better option, Grasshopper!
Me 37 H 41 2-dd's (2,3) T-14 M-10 D-Day 6/18/09 (MOW ended their brief "love" affair a few weeks later) Separated- 7/3/09
