longstory short,dinner with kids,wife walked in,went about her stuff left room came back in,that's when i said hi,like ur hair and went back to kid stuff,went round block with D. Wife knew I was at house,S texted her,my truck was running outside with lites on,etc. For someone wanting space and stuff why'd she do that? I don't think she said anything back and i didn't look into her eyes, more the side of her head as i was pouring a glass of milk for kids. NO I DIDN'T EAT the dinner,I sat and talked to the kids.
But,She walked in on kids and i having dinner at a table and doing hwork,she never saw that before.that was for me something i wanted to do!
Secondly,going to leave don't see her new car.D says getting fixed.My D has asthma and wife had to take to her to Eroom two wks ago and takes kids to school,what about work!!!besides i don't know what she paid for that car,but if u buy a new car and it needs to be fixed in a wk,u should give a customer a car!!!!
Anyway I went got the car she no longer wanted and dropped in dway,texted D and S, not a gift to mom,other dship should've given her a car they can kiss my butt:)(FOR JACK),what if an emergency,keys in ignition.
No she didn't ask for help from me,but really what if they needed a car, not a control thing, the right thing.
other odd thing going to leave another neighbor hollars at me,i don't go into much detail and of course she mentions affair W having with neighbor,I said listen not telling u much,yes they have friendship and it's our deal to figure out,i'm ok and getting better.These neighbors both say,ur wife is crazy mo's ago she said how much u lv her and put kids first and this nieghbor i'm talking too is twice divorced first marriage was 24yrs and she's almost quoting the Do's of DBing if ur dealing with a WAS and how she messed up and wanted first hubby back, in front of new hubby, poor guy.
Said not like that wife is great lady going thru things dropped a bomb and i'm doing my stuff and wanting to be with kids,told you too much now drop it.She and husband hugged me and told me stuff i already knew 'bout myself and what they been seeing,again told 'em I'm fine.
Anyway saw wife walk over to the EA neighbor and for the first time ever i didn't care!
I miss her bad,if i could take her pain on myself i would,like all of you would for your spouses.
THREE THINGS make me feel good right now,ME,MY KIDS AND YOU GUYS. What is emotional support????I was told I never offered that by wife right after the bomb.Please tell me what that means,I thought i offered it,but "intentions are different than the result." Quote wk after the bomb.
