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but who cares what makes them stay or come back?


Depends on the sitch. You can't "make" another person happy if they are busy bruiting about how the don't really want to be there...trust me.

Really depends on all facets of the personalities and the situation.

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Anyways, with that crazy rambling, this could be an opportunity. Maybe do some research into what the courts would do financially for you both with 50/50 child split. Show her how much different it's going to be when you governed by the courts as to what you and she will be obligated to be responsible for. Show her how tight things are going to continue to be. Not in a threatening kind of way, but use this as an opportunity for a reality check and the opportunity to show her you are looking at life with her as a divorced co-parenting unit......


Agree.