My honest opnion is that when you sent that it just a little needy...I think it is time to detach lovingly and just let him go. I think that It can still work but that your H needs to figure that out. At this stage in his thinking(fog) what ever you do will not pull him back. So detach and become the best you can be. I know sounded really cheesy. Could be a line from an army comercial . That is just MHO so take it with a grain of salt.