Yes, it does sound like she is obsessed with me doesn't it???
I was looking around Facebook & found out where OW is getting some people who ex used to work with here as friends. This one woman really liked me & knew how much my ex loved me, b/c I talked with her right after he told me he wanted D & she couldn't believe it. She said after all these years that we would still hold hands & everything & she said she knew how much he loved me. But now this OW is befriending her. Oh well, my thought on that is that eventually, I hope, everyone will figure out what she really is. In the meantime, I've decided not to look to see who their friends are on FB, it just bothers me.
I'm doing my best to keep my head up & know that what comes around goes around. Plus if you are that concerned or obsessed about something it could very well come to pass & not how she would like it! Who knows, I'm just trying to do the best I can for now.
This has been a real hard time for me this time of year. I've really had some sad days but I'm doing my best to get out of them & say everyday "Ex, I forgive you". Then concentrate on something else. It doesn't always work that well, but I try!