Verbal abuse can be very intractable. I would actually suggest IC for you and your son whether or not your H goes and whether or not he does IC himself.
Edit: Apologies if you're already in IC and I just missed it. Crazy long work week for me. TGIF tomorrow!
Last edited by Dia; 10/02/0903:45 AM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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