Personally, it sounds like to me that misery loves company. Mrs. SP threw a big bucket of poopy up the side of a wall, and now it's splashing back down on her, and she's discovered it sucks.
I can't disagree with SP's rant - I've felt almost identical emotions
But, in keeping with my mantra of "Do the right thing no matter what", I echo hoosiermama:
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yeah, she's hurting over something that she knows she's caused but can't admit it yet because she has to get her mojo to a point of at least minimal capacity or the admission will destroy her
What you're seeing is a woman who's reaping what she sowed, and the enormity of that reaping is crashing down on her. Take the anger, shame, guilt, manipulations, feelings - roll into a tidy ball, and do a flying leap into the middle of it.
And again hoosiermama:
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in short, you do nothing for now except recognize her desperation and stand back and shake your head, and be sure Themselves are safe.
It is in this step back from the edge of the abyss that peace can be found.