Maybe I missed something, but why the sudden rush to decide?
A sadder example of aimless thrashing around doesn't spring immediately to mind. Is she still pursuing IC? Because, damn, I have to admit I almost do feel sorry for her. It sounds like all this has been festering away for a very long time .... longer than you've been married, probably. She's fighting demons that may have little to do with you, and I hope she gets some help she can accept and utilize.
This struck me particularly powerfully:
Originally Posted By: SP
What she did with Signore is totally different, but that doesn't matter because I clearly never felt anything for WAW. "I f*cked someone 8 months ago and I would probably have done it again but for the fact that I clearly didn't "do it" for him. (Something you two have in common)."
What that has to do with the global sexual complaints is unclear, but if you're quoting correctly, it's heartbreaking.
None of which is either an excuse or your problem per se.
However, decisions made under the influence of *any* strong emotion are ripe for regrets later, IMHO.
Meanwhile, darkly sounds like a good plan.
Last edited by Kettricken; 10/02/0902:49 AM.
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