What's sad or unfortunate, is that time is limited, no one knows how long they will live, choosing to waste time in limbo is really disrespectful, what if after waiting for so long, the LBS in one of these situations kicks the bucket, the WAS spent all that time waffling back & forth instead of being mature enough to move in the path of reconciliation or divorce. At least when a decision is made, even when it's the answer that we don't want to hear, it is a step in a direction other than lingering in limbo.
