My week has been filled w/thought provoking passages on my private "journal." It's been 18-months POST BOMB. I started DB'ing 10 months ago. I have read about "the math" (1 month per year to get past this crap). OK, we've been married 13 years. So, he has until Jan 1 to get his sh*t together, and I think I'll have it in me to tell him so by then.
I see the fog lifting. I feel the man coming back.
Hope it's not too late by then. I'm tired. Or, maybe (like SP) tired of being challenged (lack of response is a challenge, as well).
so based on how many years you've been together, you count how many months to give someone to smarten up. In your case 13 years, equals 13 months, interesting, what's the logic behind this?
