My week has been filled w/thought provoking passages on my private "journal." It's been 18-months POST BOMB. I started DB'ing 10 months ago. I have read about "the math" (1 month per year to get past this crap). OK, we've been married 13 years. So, he has until Jan 1 to get his sh*t together, and I think I'll have it in me to tell him so by then.
I see the fog lifting. I feel the man coming back.
Hope it's not too late by then. I'm tired. Or, maybe (like SP) tired of being challenged (lack of response is a challenge, as well).
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
