Don't really have anything to add to what has already been said, but just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you, and hoping that you are feeling better.
As has already been said, there really isn't too much you can do right now other than focus on yourself and the kids.
I'm glad you've stopped walking on eggshells. You've been walking on them since last November, and it isn't fair to you.
I still think he is just plain confused. He wants this, yet he doesn't. He wants to be separated, but doesn't seem to want the things that go along with it.
ALL choices have consequences, good and bad. He needs to understand that.
Take care of yourself, Jackie. You're a fine lady.
