Well......

W had agreed to go out with me this weekend. Tonight I looked at the babysitter's phone number and said - do you really want to do this, or are you just humoring me?

She said, well if you put it that way...
We can skip it.

She seemed mildly agitated for a moment.

yeah, I cancelled our date.

Feeling angry now, thinking about the legal stuff. Seems going on a date with her would be just too painful.

Of course, her complaint used to be that I never called the babysitter. I hope I did the right thing.