that's one way to look at it, I suppose. and we all project our own agendas and subsequent agendas on others. I just don't read this as her being emotionally capable of being so manipulative or intentional.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
