A sense here from reading your post. Obviously we know I didn't do things right, but your H really really sounds like David did when he moved. To find the person inside to clear his head.
I know he ended up out to dinner with OW, but I think I pushed him there. Just don't want to see you do the same thing.
I think key is going to be validating and being supportive and shoot the way things seem to be running on the bb this week lets find some of the water or whatever and give to David and your h both!!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
Just don't want to see you do the same thing.
