I like what optimist said here: "And even in this turmoil, there will come a time in which you will get a measure of inner peace. When you look into yourself and realize that you like the skin you live in and the person you are. Then you will know that you have won regardless of what happens to your M."
That is so true! I started reading the book, "Getting Back Together." It is really good and think you would get alot out of it too. It talks about how a S can be an important part of reconciling for good. How S allows time for bad feelings to heal and for personal growth. I truly believe that for some of us it can be the best hope for us. Hang in there!!! Things will get worse before they get better, but they will get better! I'm here for ya!! nik
