Thanks Dudess - words of wisdom for sure! After my earlier post it got me back to thinking exactly those things...why did I fall in love with H? So maybe it would help me to write a list of all his positives and why I loved him:
1 - He took the initiative and kissed me out of the blue right before I left that first night I met him.
2 - He's tall, good looking. Has sexy nose, hands, and hair.
3 - His sense of humor is a little bit different than mine but he mostly "gets" me. (Many guys don't)
4 - He learned some things about me that some men would not be able to accept but he did and was supportive.
5 - I was in the military when I met him and he was man enough to appreciate that and not feel threatened.
6 - He was willing to try new things I wanted to try.
7 - Great sex.
8 - He's dependable and stable.
9 - He's smarter than he realizes or gives himself credit for.
10 - He treated me like a gentleman.
11 - The depth of his love for me was unlike any other guy I had ever dated....I thought his love would be the rock that would make this marriage survive.
