I am scared that I messed up...

[istillluvmywife]

Been a while since I last posted something, things have not changed much, W still treats me like a roommate.

We ended up going out last Saturday night, we went with another couple and had a good time. We did go to see the band and W enjoyed herself.

I have been giving her space by GAL. But I can tell that she is still mad and not ready to move on. How long can this last?

I have been reading many different people sitch and in many threads Sandy2 has appeared and given the following advise.

"Even if a W complains that her H doesn't give her the attention she always wanted, by the time she reaches that "walk away" point...the attention game will no longer work with her. A WAW is totally "turned off" about everything regarding her H and she doesn't want him around her or him paying any of his attention to her. She feels it is all too late for him to be doing that now. He should have done it when she was craving it (in her opinion).

So, what does a LBH do when he sees he has a W who is no longer attracted to him and is close to walking away from the M? He works to become the man who attracted her before the M. What were you like then? What did she find attractive about you when she first met you?"

My problem here is that what I did back then was steal her away from a boyfriend that wasn't paying attention to her by paying attention to her and doing the things she wanted him to do.

So how do I become the guy she fell for back then without paying attention to her?