Mishka, I think that started tonight. She had the discussion with Children about the seperation (I was present.) I listened and made sure there was no hint of agreement on my part. I asked if they had any questions. She had to own up to moving out, to renting an apartment etc. Thankgoodness the boys were not devestated, but they asked they could live with me. Should have seen the look on W face.
I am sure something about tonight could have been better, but it was an improvement over the past.
From this point forward it is about me being a man and owning that. I started a class at church last week about how to be a man in today's feminised society, how to do it in a Chistian way, but how to take control and be strong. I think it will be very helpful.
More on it later.
ME 41, Her 41 M 18.5 years T 19.5 years s - 12, 10 Bomb 7/12/09 Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09 She moved out 10/1/09 - present
