Beyond pissed today...calming slowly....but still very pissed.
Last night was dance and then soccer, so I was running around all evening. KEY POINT for later...wife IM's me at 5:15 telling me she is working until 6....then she notes I am not home. Watch the time line.
So I get home shortly before 8 and the wife is on the couch. So I have to get both of the kids bathed, fed, and into bed. So I get that done...and no she didn't budge from the couch and seemed overly moody. Tells me guy friend texted her today..."bye...I am out of town" and moved. So we are watching TV and around 10 she starts getting texts...doesn't answer..just ignores them and we go to bed.
This morning I am curious who is texting my wife at 10 at night. So before I leave for work, I do some snooping and it was the co-worker texting his nightly "hi". Come to find out this guy is living with a woman, but has plenty of time to spend texting my wife and taking for a bike ride. Hmmm...but that isn't what really catches my attention...there are texts to a new number.
Conversation Wife-some forwarded message "I have the power..who is my bitch now?" Person-"I have the power...who is this?" Wife-"The cougar...followed by her number" Person-"I know a lot of cougars, but don't recognize your number"
This conversation started at 5:30....shortly after my wife realized I wasn't home...hmmmmm. There was no more messages or phone calls!
This person is a 22 year old pot smoker who works at the mall and goes to the gym. Lives with a bunch of people and party all the times (including the 50 year old co-worker friend of my wife who parties all the time). The wife has stated he is "eye candy" more than once.
So how do I kick her out? I don't want a lawyer, nor can afford one, but this has to stop. I am done!
