Thanks Dudess - I'm not so good at hiding my feelings, am I?!!
OK - I'm chopping out some stuff that is not relevant but basically H's email/s stated:
"Sorry, but I will be unable to attend this hearing as I will be in Sydney for most of that week. I have to go [removed text]. I'll happily gen you up before the day so you know what to expect. Should be no biggie".
Second email: "So how did you go with the water problem? I understand you were frustrated at the position you were in but that does not excuse you ranting at me. I probably should not have used the "f" word either but these things happen when you are annoyed. How did you get it resolved?
How's things at work? You going OK"?
You are right too about my being inappropriate in my comments to him and therefore I think that your suggested words are much better! Feels like I am always apologising to him though and I rarely get such from him.
I think that I shall put together my response when I get in from work this evening and post it for comments. I can then send it on Sunday and H will be able to action the postponement on Monday.
Appreciate you all being here and helping me with this. I feel so out of control again and can feel myself tailspinning.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
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