Validating doesn't mean you agree but that you understand the other persons POV. "I understand that you think/feel ___________." You are acknowledging their feelings and thoughts, shows you are listening and that you are considering them.
"I understand your point of view. I understand that you feel that way." Makes perfect sense, and I will work harder to be better at it at all times. That is acknowledging her feelings and thoughts, and it shows I'm listening and that I'm considering her...thanks.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
