This is what I struggle with, constantly. The pain and anger makes me harsh and, whilst I don't want to feel that way, I understand that it is hampering my DB efforts.
As d/w C, this is holding me back from making forward steps with H and so she says that we will work on that from Tuesday forward.
Meanwhile, I have to keep my lid on it and I think that maybe you are right - only the tribunal stuff warrants a response.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"