Getting Un"Stuck" - Giving My Burden to God

[MrBond]

Thanks CIPA.

I know you've got my back as well as others.

I just needed some time to regroup and restrategize.

Journaling - since our talk on Tuesday morning, she's been pretty talkative and friendly. Last night when we were in bed we were talking about the kids and fairly closely and it felt like old times. Then this morning it was back to her old cold self. Weird.

I notice that she's in a better mood at night after she's had some time to relax a bit. I think she has been elusive/uncomfortable talking about work because that's where the OM is.

So what's my plan of action now? Well I am going to continue to GAL and continue to regain the trust issues she built between us to create more intimacy. We were doing well before she cycled back to her closing off mood.

I'm going to come up with a list of specific actions that I want to happen and that I will do to test things out. I wish she would go out and GAL or get more introspective so she sees that it's her and not the R that's making her unhappy.