I have slept since receiving H's emails and don't intend doing anything about them yet. None of the 3 warrant a response, other than the one about the tribunal and I am trying to make up my mind whether to go alone or not. My sister feels that I should go and take H's offer of him preparing me before I do go. I'm not so sure.
Basically, the builders screwed up on a lot of things when building our home. They have been forced to rectify but some things that they can't - for one reason and another. This is all about how they do rectify, or they pay compensation. It's like a court hearing but a little less formal, apparently. The last date was put off as I was not in a fit state to go, just after the bomb and H was working/away/couldn't be bothered. Can't remember.
My feeling is that I would rather that H change the date but I am wondering too if he is bailing out on this as it is more responsibility which he doesn't want - and would mean that we would have to meet, which would leave him feeling disloyal to ow. It's why we have the most minimal contact these days.
Your input will help, Mishaka. Thanks again!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
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