I hope you will enjoy reading the following update:
OMG – the "Too good to be true" guy did have a catch – LOL! I just knew that he was too good to be true. He phoned me regarding our "date". When I put down the phone I suddenly had the feeling that I knew him. His emotionless talking rang a bell and it suddenly clicked. I checked his details with my notes and – bingo! I met him at the beginning of the year and I didn't like him straight away.
I am sure he wrote to me in a way that it would fit my interests and hobbies because last time he told me something completely different! Either he is a conman or then a complete nutcase.
When I remembered who he was I really didn’t' feel like meeting him again but thought that I could not cancel it. So I dressed up in a way I knew he would not like. When I met him he said straight away that he thinks we are not compatible and he expected something different. That there was no point in any further talks and wasting time. I agreed and mentioned that I thought we had already met. And would you believe it, he denied it! Anyway, I was just so happy to get rid of him.
XH wrote to me that he was sorry he upset me and forgot that I wrote to him about not mentioning his GF. He didn’t' mean to be insensitive, he just sees it in a different way. We could always talk about anything, and XH never felt that he had to lie to me or hide reality!
I thought he would think this way and replied that BEFORE it was different.
He also would like to know if there is a man in my life I can turn to if I should have any problems since he is too far away! I ignored the question but wrote that I answered an ad for joining somebody on his holiday.
He wrote again that he continues to miss the area I live in and a certain thing we used to do. He wrote a few long mails telling me how bad the weather has been lately and about things he does and that he seems to be wasting his life! However, he doesn't know what else to do!!!! – I would like to write what else I could think of he could do but I won't!
He wrote again that he might come back if he is very old and would I put him up – LOL!
Anyway, we had lovely weather again and I enjoyed the last summery and warm days very much. Now the autumn weather started for sure and temperatures are dropping.
