No, not really. Remember that with me, what motivated me to actually leave and file was discovering his affair with my best friend.
Not like I was innocent, mind you - but it's a bit different than your standard WAW. I was ready to move forward *with him*, and it was in trying to go to him to talk about it that I discovered the A.
Sorry. I knew there was some history there, but wasn't sure of the details. Thanks. So that begs the question: what changed your mind about him?
