Quote:
Validating doesn't mean you agree but that you understand the other persons POV.
"I understand that you think/feel ___________." You are acknowledging their feelings and thoughts, shows you are listening and that you are considering them.


I guess that is a good point when you put it like that.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...