yep, and SP has demonstrated an excellent grasp of boundaries and self-awareness/self-control regarding these kinds of things. Compassion without enmeshment.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012