"not being there for me" - my interpretation would be that, Me needed something and didn't get it. So getting free would mean you go look elswhere to get needs met.
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How do you act supportive without stepping back into a Savior/Scapegoat dual role? serious question.
Awareness, boundaries, healthy relationship dynamics, emotional intelligence, sticking to the issues, productive dialouge
That list is what has helped me currently, so it is very much from my experience and situation. I would say awareness is big for me - listening, internal triggers, love bucket levels.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
