This is the thread I should have posted the below listed comments on:
How are most PA's and EA's discovered? Is it because of the snooping of the spouse or do they slip or do the cheaters come to a realization that they were wrong and amdit it? If I confront the W one more time about an A there will be some serious consequences. Ive been treated as if I am the worst person ever for even asking. This is horrible because I trust her sincerity to me when she denies any PA or EA but this board sure makes it look like that is typical behavior for someone involved in an A. Best or not, I am still holding onto the hope and faith that she has been honest with me.
With that said, she has admitted, in the past, with e-mailing and speaking with an old male friend who lives far away. I have continualy been told by my W that she has always gotten along better with males as there is too much drama with women, etc..
I am fairly certain those communications still occur. At this point I am told that i am the one that created the distance between us and that is nothing to do with anything else. When women in EA's deny being involved in such, are they typically straight up lying to protect themselves, knowing that what they are doing is wrong or do they really believe what they are doing is innocent.
I suspect that any further suspicion on my part will kill the R.
