Every betrayal begins with trust....

Man I think you're spot on with not keeping in touch with ex's. How can you give the new realtionship what is deserves if you got som ex hanging around 'blocking.' It's my opinion that many people stay in contact with thier ex's for selfish reasons anyway. I've also noticed a degree of hypocracy when my XW kept ex-boyfirends in the loop....she could do it, but if I did she had a fit! The fact of the matter is thatwhen someone walks out on the M and does so in the most destructive manner possible, trust is destroyed. The idea of a friendship with someone I can't trust is repugnant, not to mention an exercise in cake-eating. Sorry, no M...no friendship.


Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08