(Sometimes I mean to be obstreperous, this time I don't.)

How does "you weren't there for me" sort with "I had to get free"? Is it a cause-and-effect dealie, or is she really just that confused? I wonder.

I'm getting a whiff of fusionaholism, and I really don't know how you deal with that if *you* don't want to reenmesh....

How do you act supportive without stepping back into a Savior/Scapegoat dual role? serious question.

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Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert