Must it be one and the same? I'm only asking b/c you say she was previously uncomfortable with the one you have, although he does sound good for both of you. I generally think it's good b/c you'll know that the mc is pro-M, but if you could find another one would she feel safer?
No. The old one would not take us back as a MC even if we asked. He is now my IC and said he can't be both. I think W and I agreed on one that was recomended by a pro-M website; so I think we may have that part taken care of.
And you are right; I think she did articulate what I was thinking. But I didn't act on it because it is just too comfortable when I am with her.
