Bad news is that, after discussions with the attorney, he and I felt it best to enter into temp birds nest like agreement.
You are not paying the L to feel. Strong and confident. "I have decided that I am not going to move out of the house afterall." She even blasted you for letting someone else think - make decisions for you. It's not attractive.
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She told me that I was an adult and nobody should tell me what to do. Well, I guess I play by the rules..... She is the one that isnt.
Show me the rulebook you are using. You aren't sticking to the game plan.
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she continues to hurl the insults my way. I accept this is part of the process, but it doesnt feel good.
It's not part of the process. She doesn't repspect you and you aren't doing anything to stop her.
"Wife, I understand you are upset but every time you insult me or try to run me down, I am going to point it out to you and I will stop the conversation. When you are acting like a adult then we can talk again."
You call her on the behavior don't make it personal.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
