Corri, say it isn't so. I look forward to reading your posts here and you have such good advice for everyone. I think you enjoy jumping into the fray and having a healthy debate every now and then. If this is something you clearly enjoy and helping others is always good for the soul, why should you have to end it just to please your husband? I should think some kind of compromise is in order here. Sorry to hear about your heated discussion with your husband last night. He apparently has a number of things he is unhappy about, but could not provide you with any solutions and indicated nothing was going to change anyway? How are you going to know which hoops to jump through for him, unless he provides some hints? And then he indicated you probably won't jump through any hoops anyway (nothing will change). I think you have made a lot of changes to help your marriage (the counseling and putting effort into improving your sex life). Has he noted these changes? We all have appreciated your insights here on the board and would hate to see you go.
I am afraid my post the other night was the late night ramblings of a frustrated wife. My husband had been making great progress as of late, but now seems to be slipping back into the old avoidance tactics. And I agree as tempting as an affair would be at times all I would be doing is opening another can of worms, so I shall continue to stay true to the marriage.
